Pleasure and pain are for many people very closely linked. The intense pain that your partner feels when you tweak or bite their nipples just as when they do the same to you is one example. Many people are intensely turned on by nipple play as they are just packed with nerve endings waiting to be stimulated in the right way.

One way to gain that intense stimulation is through the use of clamping the nipples using of all things a clamp. While you could use the clips from the stationary cupboard, or even the humble clothes peg, there are far better designed toys that you can use to make your playtime more fun. They come in all sorts of different designs and strengths to help you to better enjoy a little bondage fun and titillation.

Nipple play is not just restricted to women either, most men also have highly sensitive nipples, and giving your partner the opportunity to drag you around by them can be quite stimulating.

Of course getting ready for using clamps can be just as fun as using them. The nipple needs to be erect so a certain amount of licking, sucking and general play is called for to ensure that you are ready for your clamping. If you are not used to it you should always start of gently, make sure that clamps are as wide as possible with a minimum of tension and only apply to where it is comfortable, or uncomfortable depending on how you view it. Suddenly snapping on a strong clamp for the first time could easily cut short your fun; so easy does it.

A lot of the fun that comes with using nipple clamps is in discovering that point that your partner finds most pleasurable, rather than painful. Of course that is going to change over time as you get used to what you are doing. But constantly adjusting and playing with the clamps to find that ideal tension is what makes nipple clamps so much fun when used together.

Taking clamps off surprisingly can also be the most painful part, especially right after an orgasm. Clamps restrict the flow of blood to the nipple, so when you remove the clamp the blood will rush right on back in, and with the heightened sensations after you have already come it can be quite painful. Lots of kissing and sucking at this point will help to avoid the pain however.

As with any device that restricts blood flow you do need to be careful. Leaving nipples tightly clamped for long periods could cause some severe damage. Start off with no more than 10 minutes and if you feel, numbness, swelling, or color changes then maybe it is best to ease off for a while until you get a really good feel for what you are doing.

Knowing what clamps to get can be daunting; the following selection will help you to decide what is best for you:

13.) Bull Nose Nipple Clamps

 

This pair of clamps features rubber coated clamps for added comfort as well as easy cleaning after you use them. This set is easy to use and pressure is adjusted via the screw on each clamp. For the beginner start out with a nice soft feel and work your way up to what is right for you.

The chain that attaches the clamps together is perfect for you to pull on gently to adjust the feel of the clamps. Lifting the breasts up with the chain between your teeth can not only feel great it will also look really sexy for your partner.

The chain swinging as you make love in doggy style can also add significantly to what you feel, however be careful not to just collapse down onto the clamps when you cum.

 

12.) Utimi Fantasy SM Nipple Clamps with Metal Chain (type 3)

 

For a little light bondage and the perfect slave look this inexpensive combination of neck collar with nipple clamps attached by chains is the perfect toy for you. The rubber tipped clamps are easy to adjust for your discomfort and the chains are strong enough to provide you with tension whenever you need it.

One of our favorite combinations, not just for the pleasurable pain that is applied but also for the general look that is provided. Whether you just want to sit there in front of the mirror admiring yourself as you bring yourself off, or as something to wear for couples this is the perfect set of clamps for you.

 

11.) Pipedreams Fetish Fantasy – Feather Nipple Clamps, 1.7 Ounce

Not everyone wants to have their clamps attached together with a chain, many want to have a clamp that is just free to use with a little independence; as well as avoiding something that could be easily pulled on accidently while rolling around passionately. These simple alligator nipple clamps are totally adjustable and feature soft rubber tips to avoid doing yourself any damage.

They also feature simple black feathers to add to your fetish play. As you move and bounce around the feathers will tickle all around your nipple area adding to the feeling that you will experience. Being feathers they also do not add too much extra weight unlike a chain and other weighted clamps so may be more comfortable for the novice to wear.

 

10.) Adjustable Nipple Clamps Fetish Nipple Teasers

Another beginners set with easily adjusted clamps all connected by chain to a single central ring. You may however be wondering where the third clamp will be attached. Well unless you happen to be one of those individuals with a third nipple where you place the third clamp is really down to your own imagination. Most however will attach it to the clitoris or to the lips around the pussy for some real stimulation in that area.

Making love while wearing this can really enhance all of your feelings as the chain pulls on all of the clamps making those parts tingle with pleasure with every stroke. Designed with the novice in mind but can easily be used by the more experienced and still derive a high level of pleasure.

 

9.) Spartacus Bell Nipple Clamps with Tweezer Tip, Silver

Not every nipple clamp is of the crocodile or alligator style. These tweezer style  clamps are both stylish looking and effective. They work very simply, fit the tip of the tweezers over your nipple and then slide the band along the length of the tweezer toward the tip to apply additional pressure. The tips are rubber coated to prevent any damage by metal edges.

The little bells add a magical feel to the whole effect. Doggy style while trying to achieve your favorite tune could be a game that you could play for hours with this set.

 

8.) Master Series Tweezer Nipple Clamps

 

Tweezer clamps are often preferred over crocodile style clips, not just for the look but also for how the pressure is applied. They also have a different feel when you start to play with the chain as with this chained set of clamps.

Moving the ring along the length of these tweezer clamps towards the rubber coated tips will increase the pressure applied, while gently pulling on the chain in different positions will apply many different sensations for yourself or your partner. An easy to use and very inexpensive set of clamps that will provide you with hours of fun.

 

7.) Ball Gag Mouth Silicone with Breast Nipple Clip Clamp

For those of you that are getting more into the SM games this little combo may be right up your street. It is also perfect for keeping the other half quiet if they are prone to making too much noise in the bedroom department. The ball gag fits right into the mouth for that auto-asphyxiation kick as the clamps can be fitted tightly onto your nipples.

Fully adjustable you can make sure that this set gives you that heightened feelings that you are looking for. Moving the head around will allow you to tug on the nipples, so arching back as you cum can really make you want to scream; if only you could.

 

6.)  Lux Fetish Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

 

Another style of clamp is the clover or Japanese style nipple clamp. Generally these clamps will bite down a little harder than the other styles and less adjustable for the initial grip than other styles. So if you are looking for a nice nip of pain as they go on these are the babies that you are looking for.

The added thing with this style of clamp is that as you pull on them they get tighter applying additional pressure to enhance the pleasure that is felt. While maybe not for the beginner this highly inexpensive set is a great way to move on with your play in the SM area.

 

5.) Black Japanese Clover Clamps

 

The deep matt black color of these stylish clover clamps adds to look when you use this set of clamps. They are strong and will add some real bite to your play. As with other clover clamps there is little or no adjustment with regards the pressure that they apply so once they are on that is the pressure that you have – tight. These toys are not for the beginner and can be quite painful if you are not used to it.

But if pain is what you are looking for within your play then just give the chain a quick tug and you will have your partner bucking in pleasure. As you pull on that chain you will apply additional pressure to your partners already tightly gripped nipples.

 

4.) LZWIN® Creative Stainless Steel Nipple Clamps

This unique looking style of clamp allows you to really put the pressure on when applied to your partners nipples. These are not going to be slipping off once you have turned the screws and applied the pressure that gets them gasping for more.

Unlike most other sets this has no rubber cover for comfort but the edges are smooth and free from sharp edges. The metal also means that you could use these straight from the freezer or even a cup of nice hot water for an even bigger thrill. This toy is a real beast for those that are into their SM.

 

3.) Shock Therapy Nipple Clamps, Hezong Adjustable Sex Nipple Clamp

If you really want to charge up and electrify your bedroom experience then try this toy. Not only do you get to clamp those nipples night and tight to make them feel all tingly with pain induced pleasure; you also get to run an electric shock through them.

This set works a little like the electric massagers that stimulate muscles through electric shocks. This unit however will provide you with electrical stimulation direct to your nipples. Even the lowest setting is going to have you sitting up if you have not gotten yourself warned up for the experience. Highly recommended if you are looking for something a little different.

 

2.) California Exotics Nipplettes Vibrating Nipple Clamps, Pink

Thankfully this set of vibrating nipple clamps comes with extra batteries as they can be quite addictive. Used in much the same way as other clamps you have the added stimulation of the powerful vibration being played directly into your already stimulated nipples. Fully waterproof you will be able to use these beauties in both the shower and the bath for wet and fun play.

Just remember that you tighten the screws on these clamps to ease off the pressure not the other way around. This set is easy to use and fun for both those starting out with nipple clamping and those that have been in the SM scene for longer.

 

1.) Passion Peak Flirt Vibrating Love Egg and Nipple Clips Clamps Set

 

To round off this baker’s dozen we have here the full set; the two nipple vibrating clamps along with the attached egg that you can use for stimulation elsewhere. Imagine the feel of those clamps tight on your nipples sending vibrations through your body while you stroke your clit with that vibrating egg.

This is something that you have to try. Just make sure that you have the music turned up loud or that you are staying in a hotel that you don’t intent to return to. This is not a toy for those of you with thin walls to use unless you enjoy sharing your sexploits with your neighbors.

Double ended dildos come in a variety of different sizes, shapes, designs, colors and even materials. They are however all designed to provide you with a huge amount of pleasure whether alone or with a partner, or two. You can use them to penetrate both your ass and your pussy at the same time for that unbeatable DP feeling. Or they can be used to bring together a couple – ass to ass, ass to pussy, or pussy to pussy.

These toys are an amazing addition to your bedroom fun and can lead to all sorts of discoveries, such as what time the neighbors have to get up in the morning as they hammer on the wall asking you to keep the screams down. With many different models to choose from you can be sure that there is going to be something out there that is going to push all of your buttons:

15.) Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies – Jr. Double Dong – 12 Inch – Double Sided Dildo – Pink

Very inexpensive this starters double ended dong is a great place to find out if these toys are for you. At a modest 12 inches in length and 1.5 inches in diameter you will have no problems in sliding it into either ass or pussy. It is also flexible, yet firm enough, to be bent double to be inserted into pussy and ass at the same time or both ends into a single hole for a real snug feel.

The shorter length also allows you to get your bodies much closer together once fully inserted so that you can actually rub against each other with the toy deep inside you. In many ways the shorter length actually makes for a better feeling when playing with a partner of either sex.

 

14.) Doc Johnson Classic – Veined Double Header – 18 Inch – Double-Sided Dildo – Black

 

Long and thicker than the smaller versions you will not be disappointed with the feel of this true monster. With so many options you are going to have the time of your life with this super long and firm toy. Used alone or with your partner you could try sliding in its full length, but take your time and use plenty of lube. Don’t forget to clean out first also!

As a double ended toy you can achieve some really intense orgasms as you play with your partner, either to push into each other at the same time or even bent double to please both ass and pussy or to slip both ends into the same hole. The size can take a little getting used to if you have not tried anything like this before but you will not regret trying it out.

 

13.) California Exotics Slim Jim Duo Super Slim Double Dong, Veined, 17.5″

Long but not excessively thick unlike some other toys of this length. This makes for some easy exploration and experimentation without worrying about getting in anything that is just too wide for comfort. This is actually a great toy if you want to learn how to deep throat your partner or even how to swallow swords if you feel the need for a party trick.

Its narrower width and flexibility also make it an ideal starting toy if you want to enjoy some deep ass play. This will be able to slide in fully with plenty of lube and perseverance. As with anything take care and discontinue use if you feel pain or discomfort. Ensure that you clean these toys thoroughly before and after use for your own saftety.

 

12.) Eforstore Adult Sex Toy Waterproof Jelly Double Dongs Top Sex Realistic Dildo 

 

This is a great place to start if you are looking for some double penetration of your pussy and your ass. It is a smaller sized dildo with different sized ends for more comfort in butt and pussy without too much of a struggle to get it in. This is the perfect toy to get yourself warmed up to some of the bigger toys that are out there.

This jelly style double dildo feels great when it is in, but it is not going to bend out straight for use with your partner together.

 

11.) Vixen Creations Nexus Senior Double Dildo (Purple Shimmer)

Perfect for the dominant woman who wants to fuck her man into next week while getting a lot of pleasure of her own, and also for girls that just wanna have fun with each other. While this double ended dildo can be used without a harness it is best used with as it will prevent any slippage that may interrupt your fun.

The design ensures that the woman using this will get stimulation in all of the right places as they fuck their partner. If anything the wearer is going to be enjoying more than the person on the receiving end which actually makes for some far more energetic thrusting most of the time which will add to the overall enjoyment of both partners. This is a highly recommended toy for you to use, but do get an additional harness to keep it firmly in place.

 

10.) Pipedream Products King Cock Double Penetrator, Flesh

For the woman that is seeking to try a little DP then this toy is a good choice. Also suitable if you want to try to get two realistic looking dicks into the one hole. The different sizes allows for a little more ease for those that are not used to the task at hand and the slightly different lengths also makes it a little easier to get things in and started. Use plenty of lube with this material and you will soon be enjoying the feel of having both of your holes penetrated.

Easy to clean this hypoallergenic, latex and phthalate free toy is going to be one of your favorites. Treat it well and it will treat you well also; although do not expect it to but dinner for you.

 

9.) Utimi Silicone Vibrator Double Dildo 7-speed Stimulation for Anal and Vaginal Masturbation

With the addition of a little vibration you have a real beast for the bedroom. This toy is only a little over 10 inches in length with a 1.2 inch diameter but makes up what it lacks in size with the power of its vibration. It is rechargeable through USB cable and the charge lasts long enough for any reasonable session.

This vibrating dildo is flexible enough for double penetration as well as being ideal if the two of you want to slide together. The vibration between the two bodies can make for some intense orgasms as you grind yourselves together.

The silicone material is soft to the touch and very easy to clean and maintain making this toy a must for solo or couple play.

 

8.) California Exotic Novelties Rechargeable Silicone Love Rider Strapless Strap-On, Purple

Well girls, if you want to give your partner a damn good rogering while feeling some deep stimulation of your own then this could be the toy for you. Just slip the shorter end inside of your pussy where the vibrations will be felt through from your g-spot to your clit and then penetrate your partner with your new found vibrating dick.

While they do say that this can be used without a harness it is best used with some form of support just to prevent slippage. Not that using a harness is going to detract from the fun that you will have with this. Make sure that you keep the doors locked as someone is going to come and find out what all the shouting is about; unless of course that is the plan.

 

7.) Pipedream Products Fetish Fantasy Series Vibrating Double Delight Strap-On, Black

 

As long as you both have a hole or two then this toy is for you. The dominant partner can insert one of the good sized dongs into either hole and then use the harness to position the second for penetrating their partner. The good thing with this strap on dildo is that both have independent vibration controls so you can set them exactly how each of you like them to ensure that you get the very best from your session together.

Comfortable to wear, but not recommended for use in the supermarket between sessions. This is robust and easy to maintain so should give you many sessions of roof lifting love making.

 

6.) Pipedream Products Fetish Fantasy Elite 7″ Vibrating Penetrix Dildo, Purple

 

While this double ended dildo may look a little strange the curves and bends allows it to hit all of the right spots for both of you. Worn by the woman either with or without a harness she is going to feel the full vibration of this powerful vibrating dildo in all of the right places. Add to that the ability to feel all of the thrusts pushed back into her and she will be experiencing some toe curling orgasms while delivering some of her own.

Useable either analy or into the pussy the receiver is going to also feel the benefits of the intense vibrations that this toy delivers through its unique shape. This toy has to be used to be believed.

 

5.) SoftDream Dual Penetrator Vibrator Sex Products Vibrating Dildos & Anal Beads 

 

This dual penetration dildo allows you to slip inside the dick shaped portion as well as the beads to provide that extra anal stimulation that many find provides the most intense of orgasms. This toy is not oversized and is perfect for use by both beginners to DP as well as those that are experienced and know what they are looking for. The vibration is powerful making this a very flexible toy that you could use on each other in a variety of different ways; your imagination is the only limit and of course the law of the state that you are playing in.

As with all of these toys make sure that you clean them thoroughly both before and after use and never store with the batteries still inserted.

 

4.) LeLuv 7″ & 5″ Purple Cyberflesh Double Dong Female Strap-On Harness Dildo

This is a harness worn dildo, the butt plug is designed to be inserted into the wearer for their stimulation while they get to work on their partner with the dick thrust out in front. The dick is designed with an upturned end to stimulate the g spot rather than for anal play. This set is a perfect one for those girls that like some penetration as part of their love making.

Thrusting away while wearing this strap on you will feel every thrust through the plug inserted into your butt as you drive your girl friend to distraction with the business end.

 

3.) Oneisall Sexy Toy Adjustable Double Dildos Solid Strap-on For Lesbians, Flesh, 6.5 Inch

 

This harness based set allows the wearer to have the smaller of the two dildos inserted either within their pussy or their ass depending on whatever provides them with the most stimulation as they thrust away with their partner. Suitable for pegging your partner or for lesbian style play this is a great set for anyone to try.

The dick is of medical grade silicone and is a lot softer than some other brands. This allows for more comfortable and flexible use that some users will prefer over some of the more rigid dildos that are out there. Overall this is one of the best sets that you will find for the price.

 

2.) Fetish Fantasy Series 6″ Double Penetrator Vibrating Hollow Strap-on, Black

If you are looking for a strap on that will provide your partner with double the fun then this double dildo will do the job for you perfectly. The top dildo is hollow which is perfect for those guys that may be suffering with a little performance anxiety while the bottom little chap is smaller and more tapered allowing for smoother and easier entrance into the partners back passage.

Add to this the vibrator and you are in for ride that you are not going to forget in a long time. Once you try this there really is not going to be any going back for either of you.

 

1.) LVENY Vibrator 10 Speeds Vibrating Clitoris G-spot Anus Triple Stimulator

A bit or weird looking double penetrating vibrating dildo but there is a method to their madness. The shape ensures that this dildo will hit all of those important sensitive parts. The bend on the main shaft is designed to vibrate against your g-spot while the knobbles on the front are to tantalize your clit as the shorter part slides effortlessly into your tight little butt hole.

This beauty has 10 variations to its vibration ensuring that you will feel it deep inside your every part as you use this for DP on yourself or your partner. It charges via USB and the internal battery will last long enough for you to enjoy the many delights that this DP dildo offers.